Kendal and I went to a fun play group at Amy & Ava’s Monday. I forgot Amy mentioned bringing swim suits, so Kendal and I were in clothes while everyone else swam. But since Kendal wasn’t too happy about swimming at Amy’s last time, I decided it was probably for the best.
Kendal continues to be shy – especially leery when we arrive somewhere new or with a lot of people. Even though it was just a few people and we have been to Amy’s lots of times, today was no exception. Rather than fight it, I am trying to let her slowly warm to things are her own pace, which is actually hard for me to do. I see all the other kids having fun. I so want her to join I am tempted to push, but I am starting to learn.
So, when we arrived I set her down outside the pool fence and I sat down inside the pool fence by the pool (about 3 feet away). While I chatted with Amy & Megan and the other kids played, Kendal slowly inched her way toward me. Eventually, she was close enough to touch some of the toys. In time, I picked her up and sat on the edge of the pool dangling our feet in – she fussed for a second and then remembered how much she loves it. Finally, Kendal warmed up and happily played around the pool with Ava and Delaney. By the time we brought out the food, she was happy as a clam. In addition to the pictures, I got a cute video of the girls banging on the table!